a spoiled boy got everything from life what he wanted never confronted with rejection never saw obsticals hurdles in life since they were removed from parents and other parenting people.
so he grew up in a free way without hinder.
then it comes the point in life where he has to step out into society work relationship and other things.
never witnessed refusal and a hindering event he will be confronted with the obvious. he will see what we all see in life. rejection through other people. rejection through the system that only wants you in a specific form. not accepting you as the center of life but a tool for it´s purpose.
instead of doing what we all do in life. fight for our interest or adapt to the situation to gain a profit in a altered form the spoiled will take it personal. it will take the ordinary obsticle we all face as a personal rejection. he will not fight for his interest since he is used to get without fighting for it he is used to cry to get what he wants. he does not know how to fight for his interests in this system since he was never part of this system and never gained skills in this system to work for his profit.
so he will be a crybaby blaming the world and others for something everyone faces and everyone manages to turn to individual profit. but not this one. this one will sit in his corner cry about the evil in the world and will remain selfrightious selfcentered unable to work for his profit.
now let this boy be a member of a ethnic minority. he will feel he is rejected due to his ethnic origin. he will think it is excluded from the system since he is different. he will think he faces the obsticals and hurdles because he is a minority. he will not fight for his interest since he thinks the system does not want him in their middle. he will turn his back to the system and will join other cry babies in a ethnic group circle blaming the outer world for their evil and build a ethnic segragation. it will join a own ethnic only group and will actively work to keep that group close together. it will build conciousness of the group and will not allow the outer groups to enter this group. it will create a own reality that will do everything to keep the outer reality and the reality of those who he feels rejected him out of his group. ethnic stereotypes are established. ethnic segragation is established. ethnic groups are established. ethnic gangs are established.
you find this pattern in almost all areas.
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